I'm a person with a pessimistic personality. I tend to mope a lot on reality but who does not? But do not pity me because I only want the solution to them. Usually there is a need for friends or company when we are new in a college, school or university or any new city or any new residency. We are new to the people there. We tend to have these 'friends wanted' posters hanging clearly on our faces and we become successful by the end of the day. Now we shall take a time skip of about 4 months. We are doing just fine, have a group of friends, people know us, that's it. After doing that, we put a psychological barrier on the idea of making new friends by making groups, why is there no desire for them/ Why does the need for friends suddenly destroy and draw the flame out of our friendly nature. There are many strangers in our city, society, class or campus and we do not know who they are, what they have been through. The world consists of 7 billion and we hardly know hundreds of them, well. Hardly!
Maybe if there were not such groups but instead circles where everyone is a friend of the other, there will be less chaos. Strangers can be trusted as they have no one to tell about you, they are dust bins, you can dump your problems in them and the rest will work out somehow, but not on itself. Acquaintances are mere excuses of short conversations of 'how do you do?' and 'I am great'. Friends are a miraculous culmination of both where we get to suffer and have comfort at the same time. Isn't that bliss? Groups of friends are like cults and are fenced by the participants so that nobody gets to enter without permission. Even with the permission there won't be any shred of connection with those fellows because they have already satisfied their mere necessity of friends. What about the desire? There should be circles, where everyone gets to join, gets to badmouth, gets to cry and everyone has everyone. People need and should be bothered about the 7 billion people worldwide and then there will be order out of chaos.
Maybe if there were not such groups but instead circles where everyone is a friend of the other, there will be less chaos. Strangers can be trusted as they have no one to tell about you, they are dust bins, you can dump your problems in them and the rest will work out somehow, but not on itself. Acquaintances are mere excuses of short conversations of 'how do you do?' and 'I am great'. Friends are a miraculous culmination of both where we get to suffer and have comfort at the same time. Isn't that bliss? Groups of friends are like cults and are fenced by the participants so that nobody gets to enter without permission. Even with the permission there won't be any shred of connection with those fellows because they have already satisfied their mere necessity of friends. What about the desire? There should be circles, where everyone gets to join, gets to badmouth, gets to cry and everyone has everyone. People need and should be bothered about the 7 billion people worldwide and then there will be order out of chaos.
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